Hmmmmmmmmm part 2

Hey folks,
Here I was the week before last in my lovely J-town, as best man or grooms best pal or whatever they call it these days. I was pretty apprehensive as it was my first ever assignment in this capacity.
I arrived Jos spent having missed my Thursday flight I spent the whole day on the road and when the trip commenced from Abuja we had a couple of challenges and ended up in Jos at 2AM, we could'nt get in till Friday morning.
I spent the nite in the bus in good company(even though the transport company provided good accommodation-rare these days!)of the driver and some canned star accompanied by hotly peppered suya.
Friday morning I hooked up with the lady that has my heart but still puts me through gruesome torture after the hug and kiss(e sweet sha!)I followed her to her designers place to berate him for the delay with her gown.
Any way I hooked prayed all night in support of my pal and turned up looking like a heavy hitter(a lot of people asked who I was).Trust former J-town boy, I looked pristine and even though there was a clashing of angels cymbals in my head I managed to suvive and not drop the couples rings.
The reception was good and I supported my pal dancing like a typical Jarawa dude(If know them they are so energetic)and I had a good laugh after the thanksgiving service the next day when I overheard my Lady(She was the chief bridesmaid) gisting a pal how another babe approached to ask for my contact details, even though she was calm on the exterior I could imagine...
Later after we had settled down to a few glasses of wine and I asked her what she told the lady who asked for my contacts and she goes " She thought she had a catch, but I told her to ask the groom. I'm sure when she got her answer, thats why she vamoosed sharply"
I felt so good that my babe still had such passion for me, I thought it was waning...

Falling...

Guess this title will spark some curiousity?
I'm in love and its soooooo painful.
I've been with the same person for eight years, longer than most marriages.
Right now we are in a process of growth that includes some stark truths,
but no matter,
It hurts...
Hoping I'll get over it soon before.....

Uhhh Yeah

Hey Peeps,
Wats Gwan? Been absent for a while.
This is for my friends- I mean the real ones, who have the guts and goodwill to tell me when I'm f..king up.
There are a couple and well, those who''ll read this would find their niche and know themselves.
to you who has been most true, I pray that i'll always be there for you.
To you who has laughed at me and let me see my situation from your eyes, I am here 'cos of you.
to the naysayers, I'm riding the waves, ain't I?
To you,who extended a hand of friendship and later felt I was not the kind to habit your world,I'm glad I got a glimpse of your heart.
To you who loves me deeply,but cannot love me enough,Thank you, I do love you.
To you who I love and have hurt...
you have taught me the fallacy of the human heart and hope your revenge gladens your heart.
Finally,to you that I have given my heart to...
I'll do it again no matter how it hurts.

Friday

I am Nigerian and loving it daily.
Funny it seems when you are down thats when loved ones say hurtful things.
crazy how things get from all clear and concise to fuzzy and stark.
well, I'm undergoing a most visible transformation and the good part is I am repositioning myself and building on my strengths. Downside, losing 'friends'.
Got a new swagger, shed some weight and getting into my work.
I had my first assignment outside Lagos, stressful, yes , but fulfilling and definitely what i'll do again.
Right now, I'm at the office, its my day off but I feel so full of stuff that I want to let out.
So I'll get back you' sometime...

I thought...

I thought we were friends...
Thought there was more...
Thought I was special just as you are to me...
Thought I...
I'll be waiting...
I did not know I was just a conquest,
Hope you are satisfied?
Let me know when you feel we are pals again.

FOOLISH

You know how it is when you say something without thinking, words do not break bones but used wrongly could lead to that. This is for that friend that I've annoyed, you know who you are, I was wrong and no matter, I should have thought before shooting and see where it got me. So hope you consider this one of those things that strenghten friendships and hope you don't hold this against me.Waiting...

zzzzzzzzzzzz

Its funny how one goes from hero to villain.In the blink of an eye. I smile but sincerely it ain't funny. For you my friend,I'll be here whenever...